July 31st, 2007 by aaks
Some Incidents in life leave you shocked and shake your faith for “The God”. You criticize Him for being unfair. You feel that you did not deserve this pain, this frustration, this punishment. You stop visiting Temple / Church/ Mosque. Stop Praying to Him.
But there comes a stage when every incident in your life starts making sense. You understand that if that particular Incident had not taken place in your life you would not have been what you are today.
For a short period of Pain/ Punishment (Though You may feel this time to be never ending ) you may be rewarded with some of the most precious moments you may have never imagined in your Life……
Ok Ok.. Enough of Philosophy…..
BUT TRUST ME ITS TRUE.
Never Lose your faith in GOD and You will be returned with the well deserved Rewards…
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July 31st, 2007 by aaks
NEVER BE ASHAMED OF YOUR DEEDS IN YOUR LIFE if you felt it true from your heart.
Some words of inspiration
from the Geeta
Karmanye Vaadhika-raste,
Maa Phaleshu Kadachana;
Maa karma-phala-hetur-bhoorma,
MaTe sangostwakarmini.
Means
Your right is to work only,
But never to its fruits;
Let not the fruits of action be thy motive,
Nor let thy attachment be to inaction.
“Whatever happened, it happened for good.
Whatever is happening, is happening for good.
Whatever that will happen, it will be for good.
What have you lost for which you cry?
What did you bring with you, which you have lost?
What did you produce, which has destroyed?
You did not bring anything when you were born.
Whatever you have, you have received from Him.
Whatever you will give, you will give to Him.
You came empty handed and you will go the same way.
Whatever is yours today was somebody else’s yesterday and will be somebody else’s tomorrow.
Change is the law of the universe.
If you look at what you do not have in life, you don’t have anything, If you look at what you have in life, you have everything.”
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July 31st, 2007 by aaks
If what works for somebody else is working against you, it doesn’t matter how hard you try to duplicate somebody else’s success their way. It’s just not going to work for you. You need to focus on your strengths. Choose to work in a field that you know to be profitable, but work in it in a way that is productive for you, not necessarily the way that is productive for somebody else, regardless of how successful they are.
When you see others doing something that brings great success, you might want to follow what they do. If you also love doing what they are doing, then this is great for you. But what if you hate doing it? How well do you think it’s going to work for you? You might find some success with it if you keep working harder and harder, but it’s not going to make you happy. You’re not going to have a sense of satisfaction each time you complete such an activity. It will probably just leave you drained.
When you then start comparing your own limited success to the enormous success that’s been attained by somebody who loves doing it that way, it will only dishearten you and make you want to give up. So what do you do? Well then, find a way that’s more comfortable for you. Trying to approach it the way other people are approaching it will be hurting you, not making you better. In order to truly succeed, you have to do it in a way that works for you.
You have certain strengths and you should focus only on those strengths. Those strengths are always related to the growth of you business and how you create revenue for yourself. You can learn how to do something but in the end if it isn’t your cup of tea, there are many other skills you can take up to build your business. We all have different skillsets and so it is very important to focus on your strengths because your strengths are your unique gift of expressing value in this world.
If you work on your weaknesses long enough, all you’ll end up is having strong weaknesses. You weaknesses are not your unique gift of expressing value in this world. What truly defines a weakness? A weakness is something that you do not feel naturally drawn to doing and neither have the disposition nor enjoyment of doing it. If there is something that you just like doing even though you’re not doing it as well as you can yet, as long as you keep doing it, you will become very proficient at it.
Your strengths are the things that you feel naturally drawn to doing and find real enjoyment and satisfaction in doing them. Only by doing something that you have a natural passion for, will you have the drive and energy to keep doing it regardless of the results. Your desired way of doing things is the way you were designed to function. It is the way you were meant to express yourself to this world and achieve the success you desire. It is how you’re guided for the perfect fulfillment of your purpose.
Every person has certain unique capabilities. But they also share many other things with every body else. Your special gift is where you vary greatly from other people, but when it comes to everything else, your variance would be low. If you insist on doing everything in your business, you would end up with far less time to spend on your unique talents, and therefore would realize less from them. A person’s unique talents are what makes the person and the world wealthy.
Wealthy people look at themselves honestly and see what it is that they most enjoy and what it is that they are a whole lot better at than most other people. They may also be good at a whole lot of other things, maybe slightly better than most people. But what is important is what they are best at, not just good or even great, but best. It is also what they really enjoy and cannot stop doing. What matters is what they are far better at doing than anyone else and what they enjoy best.
Then they do only that thing and delegate, outsource or leave everything else. They do not worry that people will not do the rest as good as they would have. Delegate everything else in your business except for the one thing you are exceptionally good at and what you most enjoy, even if it is just dreaming up new ideas. Society functions best when everyone does what they are best at and most enjoy, and their strengths compliment each other’s weaknesses so we are most productive and happy.
The secret of success is doing a few basic things right most of the time, and repeating the process over and over again. Those few basic things are your strengths. Keep focusing on doing what you most prefer to do and enjoy doing. Everything else that does not help you to do what you do better is a distraction from success, and most distractions appear under the guise of opportunities and alternatives. Concentrate by ignoring all else and focusing on your core activities to achieve maximum success.
It doesn’t matter how successful others are with what they are doing. Your strengths are different, and you have to accept that and find a way to work with your strengths. When you do that, the improvement you make is remarkable. So learn from what others are finding success at, and try it their way at first in case it works for you. But if it doesn’t, don’t keep trying harder and harder at something that just doesn’t fit you or your personality. Either do it your way, or move on to something else.
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July 31st, 2007 by aaks
You may have heard about the power of thought. You may have heard that we create our own reality based on our own thought. However, you may not believe it. And I don’t blame you, and I know why you don’t believe it.
I am sure you agree that we are only interested in results and how we can get our own results in our own lives. For me, that is what really matters. The problem is that most of us use our current results to generate our thoughts. So you may be broke, in debt, have a job that you don’t like, or don’t have a job. These are the results that generate bad thoughts and you feel bad. Feeling bad, you are conditioned to do the same things over and over again, and eventually you get the same results (the bad ones). Can you see the problem? We think based on current results, or appearances.
Now, the good news is there is a way out. I am sure most of you agree that we, as human beings, are the only creatures on earth as far as we know, that can THINK, can create own THOUGHTS. Can you image a horse can do that? Can a horse think “Oh, I am so happy”. I very much doubt it. But we can create this thought. Even in the worst scenario, we can stop and generate a thought “Hey I am happy!” and start looking for the positive things out of this seem-to-be-negative situation. Isn’t it nice? This thought starts a chain reaction, leading to happy feelings, then positive actions and eventually positive results! Positive results are the TRUTH.
So to sum it up, think TRUTH (positive results, what we want) rather than think APPEARANCES (current results, what we don’t want). It is hard and laborious and sometimes painful, but we can do it! We have the power to create own thought.
This article is inspired by the ideas presented in http://livingthesecret.thesgrprogram.com
Vinh Nguyen is a free spirit writer. He is passionate about what motivates people. He believes that everyone has only one goal in life – TO BE HAPPY and everyone deserves to be happ
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July 31st, 2007 by aaks
Much of the tension in our lives arises when we consciously or subconsciously imitate others.
If we listen to ourselveswe will often here the voice of a parent, an older sibling, perhaps a charismatic teacher from school days.
Imitation is the cheapest way to live.
It is unnatural, and a sign that we are not thinking for ourselves.
And deep down, our conscience knows it.
We are under the thrall of another’s personality, sometimes several.
Awareness is the only way free. Reflect on what you say and do.
Can you see or hear others in your thoughts, words and emotions?
Don’t struggle, don’t resist, just be aware and choose to say and do the things YOU want to say and do…yourself .
Gradually, the real authentic you will emerge from the shadows .
And one day it will be your turn to turn to someone and gently say, “Be your self!”
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